Wednesday, December 24, 2008

An Apology to W!

It has come to light that a comment I made awhile back on W's blog, was taken to heart. I had meant for it to be funny, a teasing remark, but it apparently was not seen as such by my dear friend, and I want her to know how sorry I am for that. I would never want to hurt your feelings, you are such a nice, wonderful person with a quirky sense of humor and an honesty I have always respected and enjoyed.

Your friendship has meant so much to me, and I had wondered where you went, why you seemed to drop from the blogging world. If I had an inkling that I hurt your feelings, even accidentally, I swear I would have talked to you immediately! I hate having my feelings hurt, so I try to not be the kind of person who does that. If I had any idea, I promise you I would have talked to you as soon as I knew, and made sure you understood what my intentions had been. They were NEVER meant to be hurtful, ever. I care too much about you, about your life with J, your life with school. I can't imagine having to deal with school, a husband and a house on my own that doesn't have people close by. I found you to be immensely brave, especially for your younger age, you stun me with your maturity and insight. I really love having you as a friend.

I am only writing this on here, as I don't think you want to read it in my email I sent you. And there have been others, offended for you by my remark, that I want to understand I NEVER wanted to hurt your feelings. That is not who I am, or who I ever want to be. I tried to be funny, or what I thought to be funny, while sleepy from JUST that one medication. I stand by the fact that my other medications do not have anything to do with what I write. So maybe I need to reread what I write while sleepy like that. I just wanted to make sure I left comments on everyone's posts, because I felt that my friends deserved the same from me. Especially W's, whose blog I have never missed, even if I get sick, I try to get online at least by day two, I don't want people to think I have forgotten them. Not when I had been met with such a warm welcome when I began just a short time ago.

So that is all I write. I never meant to hurt your feelings W. I would never want to do that. Everyone sticks their foot in their mouth unintentionally sometimes, and it looks like that happened with you and I am so sorry. Please know if I ever do that, you can talk to me if you question what I meant. Hurting my friends is not what I would ever want to do, because being hurt by friends, is so incredibly painful, I know.

Please talk to me W. I love you. I love J. I love pot.

7 meaningful meanderings:

The Boob Nazi said...

Maybe you should buy some potatoes in good faith? haha

Wendyburd1 said...

Uhhh that pot thing is not "pot", it is standing for something else but looks really bad.

CaJoh said...

Whew… for a second there I was debating weather you were talking about Toilets or Cannabis and was going to ask— but you clarified nicely.

Have a Merry Christmas.

b. said...

Merry Christmas, Wendy!!

Michelle said...

I stick my foot in my mouth all the time. hahaha.

Have a good Christmas!

Kristina P. said...

Merry Christmas, Wendy!

Marie said...

Merry Christmas...We love ya.
Marie

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